Most of us spend our lives trying to fix the reflection instead of the mirror. The people in your life are not always the problem. Sometimes they’re revealing the story you’ve been carrying about yourself. When your concept of yourself changes, your choices change. Your standards change. Your relationships change. And eventually, your world changes. The inner world is the cause. The outer world is the effect. If you don’t like what you’re seeing, don’t start by changing the reflection. Change the one who’s looking into the mirror.